Firstly, a huge thank you to any one who took the time to read my last post. The shares and responses have been overwhelmingly positive and some of the messages I have received have been some of the nicest things I’ve ever read. I’ve even been given flowers by a dear ex-colleague and had an old school teacher get back in touch with me to share some of his own experiences and cement my point of us not being alone. Please keep sharing it if you want to, it is there to help people as much as possible!
I mentioned briefly in my last post Trans Day Of Visibility (TDOV), which is this coming Friday (31st March). Although it’s a day that many people are unaware of, it is something I am hoping will gain momentum over the coming years in the same way that Pride festivals are doing in towns and cities around the world. It’s a day that is separate from Trans Day Of Remembrance – a day dedicated to remembering trans people who have died at the hands of trans phobic violence and crime – as it’s focus is more on celebrating trans people in society and their contributions to it.
Now for how you can get involved and show your support. You’ll have seen (if you’ve been to this blog before) a pink, blue and white striped image. This is the Transgender Pride flag, one of many variations of the rainbow Pride/LGBT flag most people are familiar with. TDOV has many goals and reasons for existing and one of the aims of the day is to encourage people to display this image at their place of work, as a way of showing trans people they’re welcome and accepted there. This can either be in the form of something simple like changing your desktop screensaver to the flag colours and making it visible, wearing a pin or button badge of these colours or hanging a trans pride flag in your window. If your employer is reluctant to let you display anything (they should be called out for this, obviously!) then you can adorn your car with a small flag or bumper sticker, for example, or share the image on your social media. The more people that do this will encourage other members of the public to ask why you are displaying this image, prompting you to explain your support of TDOV and increasing the publics’ knowledge and understanding of trans people and their roles or involvement in society – and that just because we may feel we’re in the wrong body or wear different clothes to what society say we should depending on our birth gender assignment, we are still normal people who live normal lives and we are no different from any one else.
Some of you will want to show your support but may feel you have read this post ‘too late’ or have not heard of TDOV before today, but it’s never too late to show your support! I will always encourage others to display the trans flag or colours (along with other pride/LGBT+ flags) to show solidarity and support of the community. If you still want to do your bit regardless of it being TDOV or not, you can purchase flags, badges and stickers from most decent online stores and there is no end of places you can display them.
I’ll probably be wearing baby pink and blue this Friday (considering I always wear black, I’m terrified of blinding people by wearing more than one colour) and the shop I work in will have a flag hanging in the door over the weekend.
Thank you for reading, let’s see your flags!